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\u00ab Mon homme est l\u2019ex de ma tante : Entre pas\u00adsion inter\u00addite et recon\u00adstruc\u00adtion famil\u00adiale \u00bb<\/em><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Par la r\u00e9dac\u00adtion de BOBEA \u2013 Dossier Psy\u00adcholo\u00adgie & Soci\u00e9t\u00e9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u2019est un t\u00e9moignage qui a sec\u00adou\u00e9 notre r\u00e9dac\u00adtion. Celui d\u2019une femme, que nous appellerons L\u00e9a, 28 ans, dont l\u2019histoire d\u2019amour bous\u00adcule les fron\u00adti\u00e8res du sacr\u00e9 famil\u00adial. Com\u00adment g\u00e9r\u00ader le regard des autres quand l\u2019\u00e9lu de son c\u0153ur a partag\u00e9 la vie d\u2019une femme de la g\u00e9n\u00e9ra\u00adtion pr\u00e9c\u00e9\u00addente, et qui plus est, de son pro\u00adpre sang ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le poids du pass\u00e9 et le choc de l\u2019annonce<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e9a nous con\u00adfie : \u00ab Quand j\u2019ai ren\u00adcon\u00adtr\u00e9 Marc, j\u2019ig\u00adno\u00adrais tout de son pass\u00e9. Ce n\u2019est qu\u2019au bout de trois mois que la v\u00e9rit\u00e9 a \u00e9clat\u00e9 lors d\u2019un d\u00een\u00ader de famille. Ma tante, avec qui il a v\u00e9cu une his\u00adtoire pas\u00adsion\u00adnelle dix ans plus t\u00f4t, \u00e9tait l\u00e0. \u00bb<\/em> Le soci\u00ado\u00adlogue Emile Castelle, que nous avons sol\u00adlic\u00adit\u00e9 pour ce dossier, analyse : \u00ab Nous sommes dans une con\u00adfig\u00adu\u00adra\u00adtion de \u201ctransp\u00e9n\u00e9\u00adtra\u00adtion des cer\u00adcles\u201d. Ce n\u2019est pas de l\u2019inces\u00adte au sens l\u00e9gal, mais au sens sym\u00adbol\u00adique, cela cr\u00e9e une rup\u00adture dans la hi\u00e9rar\u00adchie famil\u00adiale. L\u2019homme passe du statut de \u201cton\u00adton\u201d poten\u00adtiel \u00e0 celui de parte\u00adnaire. \u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Est-ce pos\u00adsi\u00adble de con\u00adstru\u00adire un avenir ?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le d\u00e9fi est immense. Le dossier explore trois axes de survie pour ce cou\u00adple :<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. La neu\u00adtral\u00adi\u00adsa\u00adtion des sou\u00advenirs<\/strong> : Com\u00adment ne pas com\u00adpar\u00ader son intim\u00adit\u00e9 avec celle que sa tante a con\u00adnue ?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. La m\u00e9di\u00ada\u00adtion famil\u00adiale<\/strong> : Le r\u00f4le de la m\u00e8re de L\u00e9a (la s\u0153ur de la tante) est piv\u00adot. Si le clan rejette l\u2019union, le cou\u00adple s\u2019isole.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Le pro\u00adjet de famille<\/strong> : L\u00e9a et Marc veu\u00adlent un enfant. \u00ab Cet enfant aura une grand-tante qui est aus\u00adsi l\u2019ex de son p\u00e8re. C\u2019est un puz\u00adzle psy\u00adchologique \u00e0 anticiper \u00bb<\/em>, pr\u00e9vient le psy\u00adchoth\u00e9rapeute invit\u00e9.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Ce dossier de 1600 mots d\u00e9cor\u00adtique les \u00e9tapes de la r\u00e9c\u00adon\u00adcil\u00adi\u00ada\u00adtion : du silence ini\u00adtial \u00e0 l\u2019acceptation, en pas\u00adsant par le par\u00addon n\u00e9ces\u00adsaire de la tante. Une enqu\u00eate poignante sur la lib\u00adert\u00e9 d\u2019aimer con\u00adtre les codes du clan.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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