{"id":30135,"date":"2026-02-04T15:23:10","date_gmt":"2026-02-04T15:23:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobea.net\/?p=30135"},"modified":"2026-02-04T15:23:12","modified_gmt":"2026-02-04T15:23:12","slug":"adoption-temoignage-mary-donnay-la-solitude-choisie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobea.net\/index.php\/2026\/02\/04\/adoption-temoignage-mary-donnay-la-solitude-choisie\/","title":{"rendered":"Adoption &amp; T\u00e9moignage : Mary Donnay, la solitude choisie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>\u201cJ\u2019ai peur de sor\u00adtir de chez moi : quand le bon\u00adheur est \u00e0 l\u2019in\u00adt\u00e9rieur\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dans cet arti\u00adcle boulever\u00adsant, Mary Don\u00adnay revient sur un sujet tabou : le refus de la vie sociale tra\u00addi\u00adtion\u00adnelle. \u201c\u00catre en soci\u00e9t\u00e9 me fait peur, non pas par haine des autres, mais par amour de ma pro\u00adpre tran\u00adquil\u00adlit\u00e9\u201d, con\u00adfie-t-elle. 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