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1. La pause amoureuse : mythe ou solu\u00adtion mir\u00ada\u00adcle ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dans la vie d\u2019un cou\u00adple, il arrive que la rou\u00adtine, les ten\u00adsions ou les doutes s\u2019installent. Cer\u00adtains choi\u00adsis\u00adsent alors de \u00ab faire une pause \u00bb, esp\u00e9rant que la dis\u00adtance per\u00adme\u00adt\u00adtra de raviv\u00ader la flamme ou d\u2019y voir plus clair. Mais est-ce vrai\u00adment effi\u00adcace ?
Les psy\u00adcho\u00adlogues s\u2019accordent \u00e0 dire que la pause n\u2019est pas un rem\u00e8de mir\u00ada\u00adcle. Elle peut per\u00adme\u00adt\u00adtre \u00e0 cha\u00adcun de pren\u00addre du recul, de r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir \u00e0 ses besoins et \u00e0 ses envies, mais elle com\u00adporte aus\u00adsi des risques : \u00e9loigne\u00adment d\u00e9fini\u00adtif, incom\u00adpr\u00e9hen\u00adsions, jalousies.
Une pause r\u00e9ussie repose sur des r\u00e8gles claires : dur\u00e9e d\u00e9finie, com\u00admu\u00adni\u00adca\u00adtion hon\u00adn\u00eate, respect mutuel. Il ne s\u2019agit pas de fuir les prob\u00adl\u00e8mes, mais de s\u2019offrir un espace de r\u00e9flex\u00adion pour mieux se retrou\u00adver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. T\u00e9moignages : quand la pause sauve le cou\u00adple<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sophie et Julien, ensem\u00adble depuis dix ans, ont tra\u00adver\u00ads\u00e9 une crise pro\u00adfonde apr\u00e8s la nais\u00adsance de leur deux\u00adi\u00e8me enfant. \u00ab Nous \u00e9tions \u00e9puis\u00e9s, irri\u00adta\u00adbles, inca\u00adpables de dia\u00adloguer sans nous dis\u00adput\u00ader \u00bb, racon\u00adte Sophie. Sur les con\u00adseils d\u2019une th\u00e9rapeute, ils ont d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de pren\u00addre cha\u00adcun un mois pour eux, sans con\u00adtact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00ab Ce temps m\u2019a per\u00admis de me recen\u00adtr\u00ader, de retrou\u00adver des activ\u00adit\u00e9s qui me fai\u00adsaient du bien \u00bb, con\u00adfie Julien. \u00c0 leur retour, le dia\u00adlogue a repris, les reproches ont lais\u00ads\u00e9 place \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9coute, et le cou\u00adple a retrou\u00adv\u00e9 un nou\u00adv\u00adel \u00e9lan.
D\u2019autres, comme Amel et Karim, ont v\u00e9cu la pause comme un r\u00e9v\u00e9la\u00adteur : \u00ab Nous avons com\u00adpris que nous \u00e9tions arriv\u00e9s au bout de notre his\u00adtoire. La s\u00e9pa\u00adra\u00adtion s\u2019est faite dans le respect, sans vio\u00adlence. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Les pi\u00e8ges \u00e0 \u00e9viter et les cl\u00e9s de la r\u00e9us\u00adsite<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faire une pause ne doit pas \u00eatre un pr\u00e9\u00adtexte pour mul\u00adti\u00adpli\u00ader les aven\u00adtures ou tester la fid\u00e9l\u00adit\u00e9 de l\u2019autre. Les experts recom\u00adman\u00addent d\u2019en dis\u00adcuter ensem\u00adble, de fix\u00ader un cadre (dur\u00e9e, lim\u00adites, attentes) et de s\u2019engager \u00e0 faire le point \u00e0 la fin de la p\u00e9ri\u00adode.
Il est aus\u00adsi essen\u00adtiel de se faire accom\u00adpa\u00adg\u00adn\u00ader si besoin : un con\u00adseiller con\u00adju\u00adgal, un th\u00e9rapeute ou m\u00eame un m\u00e9di\u00ada\u00adteur famil\u00adial peu\u00advent aider \u00e0 clar\u00adi\u00adfi\u00ader les enjeux et \u00e0 \u00e9viter les malen\u00adten\u00addus.
Enfin, il faut accepter que la pause ne garan\u00adtit pas le \u00ab hap\u00adpy end \u00bb. Elle peut d\u00e9bouch\u00ader sur une s\u00e9pa\u00adra\u00adtion, mais aus\u00adsi sur une renais\u00adsance du cou\u00adple, plus mature et plus solide.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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