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Ma belle-s\u0153ur ne me sup\u00adporte pas ; elle croit que je lui vole son fr\u00e8re. Que faire ? (L\u2019histoire de Lila, Lis\u00adbonne)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Chapo :<\/strong> Quand l\u2019amour ren\u00adcon\u00adtre la famille, les \u00e9quili\u00adbres peu\u00advent devenir frag\u00adiles. Lila, jeune femme orig\u00adi\u00adnaire du Por\u00adtu\u00adgal, instal\u00adl\u00e9e \u00e0 Lis\u00adbonne, partage avec Bobea son his\u00adtoire : celle d\u2019une belle-s\u0153ur qui ne l\u2019accepte pas, per\u00adsuad\u00e9e qu\u2019elle lui vole son fr\u00e8re. Entre incom\u00adpr\u00e9hen\u00adsions, ten\u00adsions et recherche d\u2019harmonie, Lila se con\u00adfie et inter\u00adroge nos experts : com\u00adment trou\u00adver sa place sans bless\u00ader, ni se sac\u00adri\u00adfi\u00ader ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u2019histoire de Lila : une ren\u00adcon\u00adtre, une famille\u2026 et une \u00e9preuve<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00ab J\u2019ai ren\u00adcon\u00adtr\u00e9 Pedro il y a trois ans, \u00e0 Lis\u00adbonne. Nous \u00e9tions col\u00adl\u00e8gues, puis amis, puis amoureux. Tr\u00e8s vite, il m\u2019a pr\u00e9sen\u00adt\u00e9 \u00e0 sa famille. Sa m\u00e8re m\u2019a accueil\u00adlie avec chaleur, son p\u00e8re aus\u00adsi. Mais avec sa s\u0153ur, Sofia, tout a \u00e9t\u00e9 com\u00adpliqu\u00e9 d\u00e8s le d\u00e9but.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sofia est tr\u00e8s proche de Pedro. Ils ont gran\u00addi ensem\u00adble, partag\u00e9 les m\u00eames pas\u00adsions, les m\u00eames amis. D\u00e8s notre pre\u00admi\u00e8re ren\u00adcon\u00adtre, j\u2019ai sen\u00adti une dis\u00adtance, une froideur. Elle me regar\u00addait comme une intruse, r\u00e9pondait \u00e0 peine \u00e0 mes ques\u00adtions, et mul\u00adti\u00adpli\u00adait les petites piques. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00ab Elle croit que je lui vole son fr\u00e8re \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00ab Au fil des mois, la sit\u00adu\u00ada\u00adtion s\u2019est ten\u00addue. Sofia ne rate jamais une occa\u00adsion de rap\u00adpel\u00ader \u00e0 Pedro leurs sou\u00advenirs d\u2019enfance, leurs rit\u00aduels, leurs \u201cpetits secrets\u201d. Elle me coupe la parole, m\u2019ignore lors des repas de famille, et par\u00adfois, elle me lance des regards lourds de reproches. Un jour, elle m\u2019a m\u00eame dit, devant tout le monde : \u201cDepuis que tu es l\u00e0, Pedro a chang\u00e9. Il n\u2019est plus le m\u00eame. Je ne le recon\u00adnais plus.\u201d J\u2019ai eu l\u2019impression d\u2019\u00eatre accus\u00e9e de vol\u00ader son fr\u00e8re.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pedro tente de calmer le jeu, mais il est mal \u00e0 l\u2019aise. Il aime sa s\u0153ur, mais il m\u2019aime aus\u00adsi. Il ne veut bless\u00ader per\u00adson\u00adne. Moi, je me sens de plus en plus isol\u00e9e, coupable d\u2019exister, coupable d\u2019aimer. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Entre jalousie frater\u00adnelle et peur de l\u2019abandon<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Les ten\u00adsions entre belle-s\u0153ur et \u201cnou\u00advelle venue\u201d dans la famille sont fr\u00e9quentes, surtout quand la rela\u00adtion fr\u00e8re-s\u0153ur est tr\u00e8s fusion\u00adnelle. La peur de per\u00addre sa place, d\u2019\u00eatre rel\u00e9gu\u00e9e au sec\u00adond plan, ou de voir son fr\u00e8re chang\u00ader, peut provo\u00adquer une jalousie incon\u00adsciente, par\u00adfois dif\u00adfi\u00adcile \u00e0 exprimer autrement que par l\u2019agressivit\u00e9 ou le rejet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Les signes d\u2019une rival\u00adit\u00e9 mal g\u00e9r\u00e9e<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Hos\u00adtil\u00adit\u00e9 ou froideur sys\u00adt\u00e9\u00adma\u00adtique<\/strong> : La belle-s\u0153ur \u00e9vite le con\u00adtact, mul\u00adti\u00adplie les remar\u00adques blessantes ou sar\u00adcas\u00adtiques.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Ten\u00adta\u00adtives de \u201cr\u00e9cup\u00e9ra\u00adtion\u201d du fr\u00e8re<\/strong> : Organ\u00adi\u00adsa\u00adtion d\u2019activit\u00e9s, con\u00adfi\u00addences, rap\u00adpels con\u00adstants des liens pass\u00e9s.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Isole\u00adment de la nou\u00advelle venue<\/strong> : Igno\u00adrance lors des dis\u00adcus\u00adsions, exclu\u00adsion des d\u00e9ci\u00adsions famil\u00adiales.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
Cri\u00adtiques ou d\u00e9n\u00adi\u00adgre\u00adment<\/strong> : Remar\u00adques sur le cou\u00adple, sur la per\u00adson\u00adnal\u00adit\u00e9 ou les choix de la \u201crivale\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
T\u00e9moignage de Lila : \u00ab J\u2019ai essay\u00e9 de com\u00adpren\u00addre\u2026 \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00ab Au d\u00e9but, j\u2019ai voulu faire des efforts. J\u2019ai pro\u00adpos\u00e9 \u00e0 Sofia de sor\u00adtir entre filles, de cuisin\u00ader ensem\u00adble, de partager des moments. Elle a tou\u00adjours d\u00e9clin\u00e9, ou alors elle accep\u00adtait, mais restait dis\u00adtante. J\u2019ai eu l\u2019impression de forcer, de m\u2019imposer. J\u2019ai m\u00eame pen\u00ads\u00e9 \u00e0 m\u2019\u00e9loigner de Pedro, pour lui \u00e9viter de souf\u00adfrir. Mais je l\u2019aime, et je veux con\u00adstru\u00adire ma vie avec lui. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Les con\u00adseils de la r\u00e9dac\u00adtion Bobea<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Pren\u00addre du recul et com\u00adpren\u00addre l\u2019origine du malaise<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Il est essen\u00adtiel de r\u00e9alis\u00ader que la r\u00e9ac\u00adtion de Sofia n\u2019est pas for\u00adc\u00e9\u00adment dirig\u00e9e con\u00adtre Lila per\u00adson\u00adnelle\u00adment. Elle exprime une peur de per\u00addre son fr\u00e8re, de voir la famille chang\u00ader. Recon\u00adna\u00eetre cette peur per\u00admet de ne pas se sen\u00adtir coupable ou respon\u00ads\u00adable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Com\u00admu\u00adni\u00adquer avec son com\u00adpagnon<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pedro doit \u00eatre un alli\u00e9. Il est impor\u00adtant qu\u2019il com\u00adprenne le malaise de Lila, qu\u2019il ne min\u00adimise pas ses ressen\u00adtis, et qu\u2019il pose des lim\u00adites claires \u00e0 sa s\u0153ur si besoin. Le cou\u00adple doit \u00eatre uni face \u00e0 l\u2019ext\u00e9rieur, sans pour autant entr\u00ader dans le con\u00adflit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. \u00c9viter la con\u00adfronta\u00adtion directe<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Entr\u00ader dans le jeu de la rival\u00adit\u00e9 ne fait qu\u2019aggraver la sit\u00adu\u00ada\u00adtion. Mieux vaut garder son calme, rester polie, et ne pas r\u00e9pon\u00addre aux provo\u00adca\u00adtions. Par\u00adfois, l\u2019indiff\u00e9rence est la meilleure r\u00e9ponse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Chercher des ter\u00adrains neu\u00adtres<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro\u00adpos\u00ader des activ\u00adit\u00e9s o\u00f9 cha\u00adcun peut trou\u00adver sa place, sans com\u00adp\u00e9ti\u00adtion : sor\u00adties en famille, anniver\u00adsaires, pro\u00adjets com\u00admuns. Mon\u00adtr\u00ader \u00e0 Sofia qu\u2019elle ne perd pas son fr\u00e8re, mais qu\u2019elle peut gag\u00adn\u00ader une amie ou une alli\u00e9e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Pren\u00addre soin de soi<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Il ne faut pas s\u2019oublier dans la rela\u00adtion. Pren\u00addre du temps pour soi, pour son cou\u00adple, pour ses amis, per\u00admet de garder con\u00adfi\u00adance et \u00e9quili\u00adbre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
6. Con\u00adsul\u00adter un pro\u00adfes\u00adsion\u00adnel si besoin<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Par\u00adfois, la sit\u00adu\u00ada\u00adtion s\u2019enlise et devient trop lourde \u00e0 g\u00e9r\u00ader seule. Un th\u00e9rapeute famil\u00adial ou un m\u00e9di\u00ada\u00adteur peut aider \u00e0 d\u00e9nouer les ten\u00adsions et \u00e0 r\u00e9tablir le dia\u00adlogue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00e9moignage : \u00ab J\u2019ai choisi la paix \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lila con\u00adclut : \u00ab Aujourd\u2019hui, j\u2019ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de ne plus me sen\u00adtir coupable. Je con\u00adtin\u00adue \u00e0 faire des efforts, mais je ne me force plus. J\u2019ai par\u00adl\u00e9 \u00e0 Pedro, il m\u2019a soutenue. Nous avons pos\u00e9 des lim\u00adites, et peu \u00e0 peu, Sofia sem\u00adble accepter ma place. Ce n\u2019est pas par\u00adfait, mais je me sens mieux. \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Con\u00adclu\u00adsion<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La rival\u00adit\u00e9 entre belle-s\u0153ur et com\u00adpagne n\u2019est pas une fatal\u00adit\u00e9. Avec du dia\u00adlogue, de la patience et du respect, il est pos\u00adsi\u00adble de trou\u00adver un \u00e9quili\u00adbre et de faire \u00e9voluer la rela\u00adtion. Chez Bobea, nous croyons que chaque femme a le droit d\u2019\u00eatre aim\u00e9e, respec\u00adt\u00e9e et recon\u00adnue, sans avoir \u00e0 choisir entre l\u2019amour et la famille.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ma belle-s\u0153ur ne me sup\u00adporte pas ; elle croit que je lui vole son fr\u00e8re. Que faire ? (L\u2019histoire de Lila, Lis\u00adbonne) Chapo :Quand l\u2019amour ren\u00adcon\u00adtre la famille, les \u00e9quili\u00adbres\u2026 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16532,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[78],"tags":[12511,12512,12507,12508,12506,12510,12509],"class_list":["post-16529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-confidences","tag-conseils-vie-de-couple","tag-famille-recomposee-lisbonnesuite","tag-jalousie-fraternelle","tag-relations-familiales-compliquees","tag-rivalite-belle-soeur","tag-temoignage-bobea","tag-trouver-sa-place-dans-la-belle-famille"],"yoast_head":"\n
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